Should you force your kids into new activities?

Kids on a zip line

When Christine and I launched our book Minimalist Parenting, interviewers inevitably asked us: But aren’t you afraid “minimalist parenting” will lead to lazy, unmotivated kids? It’s not a bad question. How can kids come to know their capabilities without a push (sometimes a firm one) out of their comfort zones? Kristen Howerton wrote a fantastic piece about […]

Calm out of control tantrums with the “cross-body pat”

The Scream: Alone by Ashrel

The word “tantrum” is misleading, because it brings up images of a foot-stamping Veruca Salt when she doesn’t get her way. But we’re talking about when something triggers a kid’s fight-or-flight response. At these times, there literally is no thinking, just reaction, and it’s intense.