Melissa’s one tactful mom. I love this solution — teaches skills without finger-pointing.
Our toddlers are 17 months apart and are constantly competing for toys. That’s a nice way of putting it, right? I’m not a yeller, and I see that sharing is hard, so if things get heated, the toys go into Toy Jail. "This toy is causing a whole bunch of trouble today. Let’s put it in jail and see if we’ll have a better day with it tomorrow." Some of the hotly contested toys live in toy jail, poor things, but it seems to work about 80% of the time. My four year-old will stop and say, "Here, you take it before it goes into Toy Jail."