Prima Princessa Presents Swan Lake: DVD for ballet-loving preschoolers
The possession of double X chromosomes often correlates with two other genetic conditions: Princess Mania and Ballet Obsession. Such has always been the case with my daughter, despite my lack of girliness.
She saw her first real live ballerina at age 2, when we happened upon a free mini-performance of the Oregon Ballet Theater. Since then, she's been hooked.
So, I was excited to pull my daughter into service helping me review Prima Princessa Presents Swan Lake. This sweet DVD treats ballet-loving preschoolers to an abridged and narrated version of Tchaikovsky's Swan Lake, as performed by the Paris Opera Ballet. The plot of each act is interpreted by Prima Princessa, an animated fairy princess ballerina, followed by simple ballet vocabulary lessons, video of young ballet students (both boys and girls, which I appreciated), and tutu shots of cute preschoolers hopping around in the grass.
The DVD strikes a good balance between education and entertainment, and doesn't go over-the-top precious. Prima Princessa never gets in the way of the actual ballet (in other words, I enjoyed watching it), and the breaks between acts give preschoolers the perfect opportunity to jump up and dance. Even more impressive: the DVD was produced by two New Jersey moms with no prior filmmaking experience. And (of course) my daughter loved it.
Check out the Prima Princessa site to watch a DVD clip, print out free coloring pages, or to enter the TutuZone (the founders' blog). You can purchase the DVD at the Prima Princessa site, or from Amazon.com.
Win it! Don your tutus and get in the running for a copy of Prima Princessa Presents Swan Lake! I'll choose one Parenthacker at random who answers the following question in the comments:
Have you ever been surprised by the extent of your kid's "girliness" or "boyishness"?
I'll post the winner tomorrow, 4/3, at 3pm PST. Good luck!
EDITED 4/2 7PM PST: Um, oops. I jumped the gun, closed comments at 3-ish PM TODAY, and picked a winner 24 hours early. Which is great for Piseco, but disappointing to everyone else who's only reading this now! So, comments are open again till 3pm tomorrow (4/3) and I'll pick a second winner! Carry on!






Yes! Still surprised by how 'girly' she is since I am not very girly!
Posted by: a.m. | 02 April 2008 at 05:41 AM
Yes! My little boy is all about cars and trucks and balls and we have done NOTHING to encourage it. I was quite surprised that he was naturally attracted to normal boy things. He also has this sweet aggression thing where he likes to box (playfully), growl, and most recently laugh after he burps (wonder where he got that from?). He's boy, through and through.
Posted by: Sonia | 02 April 2008 at 05:51 AM
I remember thinking when I son was jst a year old at how very "boyish" his desires were. When given a doll and a truck to play with, he went with the truck every. time.
Posted by: MamaChristy | 02 April 2008 at 06:28 AM
My daughter suprises me everyday and oh how she loves to dance!!!
Posted by: Lisa | 02 April 2008 at 06:37 AM
yes, and no. my daughter's first word was 'truck' and she got a huge semi truck toy for her 2nd Christmas. but she is SO girly, too.
my son was always pushing the remote around the floor like a car - he was all boy from day one.
Posted by: kirsten | 02 April 2008 at 06:38 AM
My almost 2-year-old daughter is absolutely obsessed with caring for her Little People and stuffies; I am choosing not to see that as "girly-ness" but as a reflection of how well cared for she feels.
That's my story and I'm sticking to it!
Posted by: michaela | 02 April 2008 at 06:45 AM
I'm not often surprised - I'm thrilled. I relish her girliness! I still do things to balance it like getting her trucks and a tool set and stuff like that to play with, but I love that she loves to be girly and look forward to exploring it with her more.
Posted by: maya | 02 April 2008 at 07:00 AM
Yes, my daughter has been girly from the start, which wasn't too long ago since she's only 19 mos. old. Daintily crossing her feet at the ankles, hugging and conversing with her baby doll, and dancing around like a little ballerina. But she will not keep a headband on for the life of her. Maybe she isn't that girly after all...
Posted by: Raven | 02 April 2008 at 07:04 AM
My son is quite the metrosexual. When his little sisters friend wears red slippers with the purple princess dress he tells her that she can't wear those because they don't match. Then he proclaims he is going to make hairbows for boys, in red of course. Thankfully, he then decided against the idea, opining that it was too silly.
Posted by: stmada | 02 April 2008 at 07:08 AM
I've been more surprised by my daughter's range. On the one hand, she's very pink-and-sparkly, particularly in her wardrobe. Yesterday, she went absolutely insane with joy when I suggested that we get her some sparkly pink crocs. On the other hand, right before her fifth birthday, she kept asking to take karate. Finally, I enrolled her in a school. She loves it, is thriving, and will be testing for her yellow belt within the next month or two. I never would have thought that my little girly-girl would take to martial arts as much as she has!
Posted by: Jess | 02 April 2008 at 07:12 AM
I've definitely been surprised! I grew up in a gender-equality is gender-neutrality kind of household, and I knew I'd encourage any activity in my kids, regardless of whether it fit their genders. My kids have definitely shown me that they came "programmed" with strong tendencies toward the stereotypical activities for their genders!
Posted by: Piseco | 02 April 2008 at 07:17 AM
I'm often surprised by my daughters "girlie-ness" because she's an odd mix of tomboy and princess.
She likes to dress super-girly and then go climb a tree or dig in the dirt. She plays princesses but the princesses may be on an expidition to the North Pole.
Posted by: andrea | 02 April 2008 at 07:34 AM
Yes! I am suprised everday at the pink pony ballerina girl that I have birthed. She sure doesn't get it from me!! :)
If we don't win I'm going to be buying this one I think!
Posted by: tulip | 02 April 2008 at 07:36 AM
Well, he's only 3 months old but since he was born many people have taken one look at him and said, "he's all boy!" I'm still trying to figure out what they mean... But my niece, who would ADORE this DVD is quite a mixture of girlyness (loves ballet and mermaids) and boyishness (rough-houses with the best of 'em.)
Posted by: Mir | 02 April 2008 at 07:48 AM
I'm often taken aback by what seems like pre-programmed girliness in my 4-yr-old daughter. From as early as I can remember, she has wanted to dance in her dress up costumes, pretending to be a bride, a ballet princess, a princess fairy, a ballet princess fairy bride (you get the idea).
While the rivalry (with mom and her sisters) to be the "most beautiful" has already reared its face, her romantic tendencies are constant points of amusement for her mother and I. She has already started planning her wedding and having a husband (sometimes her 'Prince Charming' is supposedly her 3-yr-old sister!).
Posted by: Adam R | 02 April 2008 at 07:48 AM
I don't wear makeup and dress very low-key so it really surprised me when my daughter wanted to get fake make up and jewelry.
Posted by: Jean C | 02 April 2008 at 08:30 AM
My real amazement is how girly she is when I am the least girly-girl on the planet.
Two years ago, when she was 2, she came to me and insisted on ponytails. We had never done anything to her hair before. But that day, she not only had 2 ponytails but 4 or 5 glittery clips as well. I was simply stunned!
Posted by: meredith | 02 April 2008 at 08:31 AM
I don't know how this happened but she is SOOOOO girlie! We've never encouraged it, but I make a point to just go with whatever interests her, and for the longest time it's been sparkly, fluffy, and EVERYTHING pricess (which she hilariously refers to by the general title of "Ellas" ie. Cinderella. I dare you: tell her the mermaid's name is Ariel not Ella!)
Posted by: rednexmama | 02 April 2008 at 08:35 AM
Yes, the most recent was when she lined up her Disney Princess figurines (ugh) and told me the ones that weren't wearing big poofy skirts weren't allowed to dance. Nice.
Posted by: Corey | 02 April 2008 at 08:35 AM
So I am a bay area mom with heavy feminist overtones. I have two girls. With my first daughter , Isabella who is named for one of the most powerful women to walk the earth, I was determined that she would be introduced into life with no societal gender bias. No dolls, or play that introduced female nurturing roles. No pink, no princess, and really no mass media toys which featured any one on tv. When she cried I told her stories of powerful women and read from manifesto's of strong girls. All to no avail.
Since she did not have a doll to feed and baby, she picked any of her toys(a stuffed Leonardo da Vinci) and nurtured him. Then she had a sister and she was a little mommy, even at 14 months. We did not encourage it she just surprised us.
It made me take a hard look at some gender politics. Maybe there is a balance between nurturing types and whatever men are. Maybe it doesn't have to be gender specific, but if it happens to be thats okay too.
Posted by: Monera Mason | 02 April 2008 at 08:49 AM
I have been constantly amazed by my little girl's "girliness." I have never been that keen on pink, purple, glitter and lace and have never had much stuff available for her that screams "girly." Somehow, now that she's older and forming her very own (very strong 2 y/o) opinions, she's drawn to glitter, pink, purple, and anything "frou-frou" like a moth is drawn to a flame. Sigh. It's actually cute and fun and we have more pink things than I ever dreamed we'd have. We'll just wait to see where she goes with it as she grows. At least she also likes trucks and bugs and frogs, etc. :-)
Posted by: PsychMamma | 02 April 2008 at 08:58 AM
my 4yr old is very girly and i'm suprised by her 'boyisness'- she loves t owear camo like daddy!
Posted by: jennifer | 02 April 2008 at 09:00 AM
My 3-year old really surprises me. She is all about all things girly, but she loves playing with cars. It is really cute to see her dressed as Cinderella with high heels and a tiara squatting on the floor playing with cars.
Posted by: Nichole | 02 April 2008 at 09:12 AM
I love the crazy mix that my 4yo daughter is, as the baby sister of two athletic brothers. Last Saturday at her instructional hockey class I watched her skate around like a demon in her pink jersey and sparkly cat sticker-covered helmet, with pink laces in her skates. She came to a precise hickey stop in front of a little boy who had fallen down, picked him up, and mothered him all the way back to the coach.
But her very-best-baby-doll Spiderman is the ultimate!
Posted by: mama2etc | 02 April 2008 at 09:12 AM
I have two girls- 1 1/2 and 4- and I am amazed at how different they are from each other while still both being incredibly girly. I was raised with 4 brothers and am definitely not the girly girl type so I really didn't expect it when my first daughter got caught up in babies and ballet and barbies...and boys! Now my second is a little more adventurous and wild, but give her a baby doll and she has to tend to it like a little mama hen. How funny!
Posted by: Whitney H. | 02 April 2008 at 09:17 AM
My 3-year old son is as into girly stuff as boyish things. He likes to wear my hair accessories and put on lipstick and tie a scarf around his waist and call it a dress and twirl around like a ballerina, and is very sweet with his stuffed animals, but at the same time, he likes to roughhouse and play with balls and his toolbox and cars.
But then again, my husband enjoys modern ballet and opera, so I guess the apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
Posted by: Vivian | 02 April 2008 at 10:32 AM
I hadn't thought much about my daughter's girliness until her first Christmas, when she received her first baby doll (she had many stuffed animals already, but no actual dolls). It was like some primal instinct took her over - she could not (and still can't, two years later) be separated from that doll, and had no interest in any other presents she received. It made me realize that "girliness" can be as much nature as it is nurture.
Posted by: Megan | 02 April 2008 at 10:42 AM
My daughter likes to come up with, um, interesting combinations of outfits. She had a rather memorable one on and I asked her if she thought it went together. She pointed out that the shirt had flowers (true) and that the dress also had flowers (also true). I asked about the striped tights and she just looked at me. "Those are sparkily. Sparkily goes with everything."
Posted by: May | 02 April 2008 at 11:01 AM
My little princess-looking girl is a huge tom-boy. She has this gorgeous blond hair with perfect curls at the end. People actually ask if I curl it - like I have that kind of free time and think it would be a good idea to wave a hot wand around her busy little head. She loves her crocodile sneakers, her cars, dinosaurs, cars and trucks. I got her a great princess jammy dress - cause I loved it and couldn't resist. She won't wear it. She has to wear her Buzz Light Year or Mickey Mouse pajamas. She walks right by baby dolls and doesn't say a word. Our friends ask how we accomplished not having her be a princess junky - for the most part, we just let her be herself. We now have another girl. I'm interested to see how she'll be.
Posted by: JCApple | 02 April 2008 at 11:04 AM
My little girl loves everything.
Posted by: Shannon Baas | 02 April 2008 at 11:16 AM
I volunteer in my daughter's kindergarten class, and inevitably when I'm working on a craft project with them, the boys will always choose red or blue over pink. And if pink or purple is an option, the girls will always pick that over the other colors.
In my own home, I was surprised after having two girls, to watch my baby son's immediate fascination with anything that rolls (cars, balls, etc.).
Posted by: Sage | 02 April 2008 at 11:45 AM
My 2 year old daugther surprises me daily. She wants to be a pirate and walks around saying "Argh!" and carries a treasure map. On the flip side she loves to sing and dance so I get the full spectrum.
Posted by: Steph | 02 April 2008 at 11:58 AM
My daughter is totally a girly girl.. the complete opposite of me!
Posted by: Gianna | 02 April 2008 at 12:20 PM
Not really! I have two sons and no daughter so I can't make a comparison between boys and girls. Thus far, my boys have been boys, but I don't let that "euphemism" let them get away with "Oh well, boys will be boys" stuff! Please enter me
in your drawing because I do have a niece who thinks she is a "Princess Ballerina!" Thanks,Cindi
Posted by: Cindi | 02 April 2008 at 12:22 PM
Yes- my daughter will buy as many pink things as she can find. She's even told me before "I just don't have enough pink toys."
I personally could do without the color pink altogether.
Posted by: Sarah S. Chicken | 02 April 2008 at 12:23 PM
Every time my 3 year old makes a wish (i.e. wishing wells, birthday candles - hers and everyone else's, stars) she says, "I wish I wish I could be a ballerina". What makes me laugh the most is the feminine spin she puts on gender-neutral activities. She isn't a 'animal doctor' - she is "Fashion Show Animal Doctor" complete with tiara and feather boa. She isn't a rodeo rider, she's a ballerina princess rodeo rider. Every activity requires fashion accessories - to help me cook dinner, she needs necklaces, jewel tiara, and "clacky shoes". I laugh every day at my girly-girl.
Posted by: Bethany | 02 April 2008 at 12:31 PM
My daughter is a dichotomy, she loves girlie stuff...princesse, dressing up, etc. Yet, she loves playing boy games with my older son and his friends.
Posted by: Adrienne Gordon | 02 April 2008 at 12:45 PM
It all began with a pair of red strappy wedges. Shelby was obsessed with walking in my high heels. Her first trip to the shoe department at Nordstrom, mommy got an education about what a true shoe connosieur is all about. I watched in awe as my two year old inspected, tried on and sashayed around the floor to the delight of her doting sales staff. One particularly fashionable woman turned to me as Shelby continued her show and whispered, "You know, she has excellent taste. Patent leather is all the rage this summer!" Was this for real? It was like I was front and center at the latest Charles David Trunk Show and my toddler was Top Model! She paints her nails and daddy's, when he lets her. She carries her "Li-stick" in the front pack of her tricycle and periodically stops along our walks to lavishly apply and reapply shades of vibrant pink and shimmery gloss. She is known to carry a different purse for every occasion and changes her outfit by the mood or the hour, whichever comes first. Did you ask if I was surprised by her girlish ways? Merely flabergasted. You Go Girl.
Posted by: Gabrielle | 02 April 2008 at 01:05 PM
I actually want this for my son. He is four years old and his favorite activity is his dance class. He is the only boy and is surrounded by girls in pink tutus. He LOVES it. He plays dress up with the best of them and tells his sister her clothes don't match. His 2 1/2 year old sister on the other hand has told me she wants to take karate and couldn't keep her clothes clean if her life depended on it. It amazes me how different they are. They were both born with their own personalities and the only thing I can do is help them smooth out the rough edges. But I love that they are at an age where they do what they want without worrying what others will think about it. I imagine that will change as they get older.
Posted by: Katie A. | 02 April 2008 at 01:19 PM
My oldest is a 3.5yo girl and very girly. My second is a 2yo boy and very not-boyish! He chose Princess plates over Spiderman for his b-day, and enjoys the princess sing-along dvds. But he also loves trains, so it's not a lost cause. But I actually don't mind that he likes girl things. He will be a big boy all too quickly.
I have a theory though that the extent of boyish or girly play depends on siblings and age order. A boy first, there will be more cars and trucks, etc. A girl first, pink and princess and dolls will abound. I've seen it with my nieces and nephews. :)
Posted by: Holly | 02 April 2008 at 01:20 PM
My girls are very girly. They are really into ballerina, princesses, all girly stuff. But I was surprized by how boyish they can be. They just love cars, super heros and construction stuff.
Posted by: Noreen | 02 April 2008 at 01:56 PM
My daughter definitely loves almost all of the spectrum...from trucks, tools, and rocks to "fancy" (we are still trying to avoid the princess stuff as much as possible) stuff, dolls, dancing in twirly skirts, and dress up. The most girly thing, though, that surprised me, is her newfound declaration that she "only likes pink and purple!"
She just turned 3, and I've been thinking of enrolling her in a dance class to see how if she really likes it, and this DVD has been on wish list for months. I'd love to win it!
Posted by: Sara | 02 April 2008 at 02:01 PM
Mildly surprised yes, but never, stunned.
Posted by: Ed Nemmers | 02 April 2008 at 02:06 PM
My daughter (3 yo) takes ballet and would love this dvd. She is so much girlier than I ever thought that she would be. She is number 2 and my first is a boy so there weren't many girl toys around for her at the beginning. She's definitely become obsessed with all things princess.
Posted by: divrchk | 02 April 2008 at 02:10 PM
If choosing spiderman over barbie
makes my son more boyish-hurray for him.
Posted by: linda | 02 April 2008 at 02:51 PM
Nope not surprised by my "girliness".
Posted by: Denyse | 02 April 2008 at 03:07 PM
No, not really- neither of my kids have gone to excessiveness on girly/boyish things- yet...
Posted by: Leigh Nichols | 02 April 2008 at 03:35 PM
My daughter is only 10.5 months old but her most favorite "toys" are her shoes and my magazines. Perhaps we have a mini-fashionista on our hands already!
Posted by: Lindsay | 02 April 2008 at 03:39 PM
Does really being a "princess" count?
Posted by: Linda Moeller | 02 April 2008 at 03:44 PM
My daughter is the only girl and has always been a tomboy! All the neighbors are boys too so she doesn't have any little girls her age to play with. She just hangs out with the boys and digs in the backyard or watches sports with the boys!
Posted by: kiyana | 02 April 2008 at 03:49 PM
yes, i'm constantly surprised by my kids' girliness or boyishness
Posted by: christopher h | 02 April 2008 at 03:52 PM
My daughter likes to work with daddy's tools and dig in the dirt but she coos at baby dolls and likes to twirl a fancy dress. Before having kids, I honestly thought you could influence more of their personalities than you really can. It just comes out. Gender stereotypes are actually based on reality. Who knew? My 8 month old boy is totally different than his sister. Which isn't to say he doesn't like her Barbie movies. But by the time he's her age (4) he will probably not be so keen on the pinkness.
Posted by: Naomi | 02 April 2008 at 07:27 PM
my daughter isnt girly girl at all, she loves to wear her brothers hand me down fatigue pants!!!
Posted by: bina edwards | 02 April 2008 at 07:28 PM
My daughter is totally a girly girl
Posted by: amber | 02 April 2008 at 08:50 PM
I often make up stories for my grandson and granddaughter, and whenever I have a dragon that needs slaying, Sir Tristan and Sir Sophie come to the rescue. The real-life Sophie refused point-blank to be 'Lady Sophie', recognizing even at the tender age of four that the knights have all the fun, while the ladies just get to sit around and look pretty.
Posted by: Chakolate | 02 April 2008 at 08:59 PM
I have boy/girl twins, and they are such a boy and such a girl! He loves cars, trucks, anything with wheels. She likes purple & pink and dolls and stuffed animals. We try to keep a balance of "boy" toys and "girl" toys, and they each play with the toys differently. It's so interesting to watch!
Posted by: Sandy | 02 April 2008 at 09:22 PM
My grand-daughter is too curious about the world and how things work to be concerned about gender. She does, however enjoy dressing up and being the center of attention! I had the library order this DVD -- the Tchikovsky msde her dance up a strom but no step was in step with the dancers on the DVD@
Posted by: Joyce Pawlik | 02 April 2008 at 09:36 PM
My husband, despite his absolute and unending love for the NFL, isn't really the most manly of men, so I wouldn't be surprised if our 2-year-old boy turned out similarly. He already loves butterflies, rainbows and Dora. But then again, he also loves all things sports and cars, and he's entered that fun headbutting stage. I think what would most surprise me is if he turned out to be athletically inclined at all!
Posted by: Amy :) | 02 April 2008 at 10:16 PM
Yes! My son has almost always opted for trucks, cars and other "boy" toys. We didn't really encourage or discourage this and would allow him to play with whatever he wanted. Even when he got older and began to play house with some girls in school, he always chose to play "daddy." Thank you for the contest!
Posted by: Donna Hunt | 02 April 2008 at 10:21 PM
Yes! Yes! Yes! My middle son is all boy. He clearly prefers all things boy and not pink. He really enjoys a good rock tune by a MALE artist. As do his 4 make believe children, all boys by the way.
Posted by: momo3 | 02 April 2008 at 11:03 PM
My son is all grown up and was all boy and now he is raising 4 boys . The 4 yr old likes dora and shows like that . He makes sure baby brother doesn't have any pink stuff .He got upset because baby brother had a baby magic bottle in his diaper bag. It should of been blue for a boy he said. !ty 4 the great contest!
Posted by: Janet | 03 April 2008 at 01:50 AM
I only have one girl and I'd love to have this for her!
Posted by: Kari Follett | 03 April 2008 at 03:20 AM
I've been completely surprised with how my daughter's done an about face on girlishness. She started out wanting all things princessy and sparkly and long floppy hair was her goal. Now she doesn't like anything frilly or fancy.
Posted by: Elizabeth M. | 03 April 2008 at 04:12 AM
no, not really
Posted by: Lily Kwan | 03 April 2008 at 04:28 AM
When my children were born, I was determined not to put them in gender "roles". But my sons preferred toy cars, guns, baseball cards and video games. My daughter loved dolls and dress-up.
Posted by: Susan Chester | 03 April 2008 at 04:31 AM
I have two boys--the older (4 yrs old) doesn't fit neatly into a traditional gender stereotype, but the younger (22 months) is all boy. This doesn't exactly answer your question but the older is currently taking ballet at school, and I have been surprised and delighted at how much he loves it. Each week he comes home and tells me all about the latest move he learned (as filtered through his r-year-old understanding, like when he learned that "relabay" means to put your arms up and tip your head backwards).
He's the only boy in his ballet class, and his teacher says that if all her students were as enthusiastic as he is, she would teach for free.
Posted by: Kate W | 03 April 2008 at 04:33 AM
I'm amazed how much lilly loves princesses and dancing and the color pink.
Posted by: Diana | 03 April 2008 at 05:18 AM
My 3yo is definitely obsessed with Princesses. Dolls, books, movies, dresses. I never encouraged it, but I do usually give in. But she's no delicate flower. She loves baseball (even though she throws like a girl), her best friend is a boy, and she often gets in trouble at school for hitting the other kids (she's almost the only girl in her class).
Posted by: Trish | 03 April 2008 at 05:32 AM
I was very surprised at how my daughter. She love pink and gets in make up. I was always a t shirt and jean kind of girl. never in to make up or even dolls much & neither is my hubby. so she didn’t get it from him I think. Though he is the only one in the house that can braid hair so she has to go to him for that. she is quite the dancer also we as I would not be caught dancing. she can always be found in front of the stereos at Wal-Mart. Dancing away and loves the classical music. quite funny to see the looks on people faces in Wal-Mart. most of them know her in our small town. Wal-Mart is one of the only big stores we have here. She always seems to brighten every ones day!
Posted by: Danielle | 03 April 2008 at 05:42 AM
I see I'm not in the minority here - many non-girly moms with little pink princess daughters! I was determined from birth to raise a "strong" girl whose self-esteem stems from what she can do rather than what she looks like. We have never had any princess dolls/clothes/movies, etc, and yet somehow, at not quite 3 yo, she has developed a love for the Disney Princesses. She even has a favorite, yet has never seen a single one of the movies!! For Halloween, knowing how much she loves to dress up girlie, I compromised and dressed her as a fairy (basically a princess with wings, but somehow more palatable to me). Now she loves to wear that costume all the time. She also likes to pull her shirt most of the way off at bedtime and walk around regally telling us all about her "princess crown." It's amazing how pervasive marketing can be!
Posted by: erika | 03 April 2008 at 05:45 AM
Four years ago, I thought I had it all figured out. My daughter would play with trucks, my son would play with dolls, my house would be a gender-conflict free home.
Then, I had a baby. My daughter, Zoe, and I have a deal - every *other* day is dress day. During the winter, we layer tights and long sleeves so she, "Is actually a princess and not looking like a dude." Her words, not mine. When I tell her she can't wear make-up yet (which I never wear), she says, "Well, I guess I just can't be fancy today...(sigh!)." Her life goal is to dress like Fancy Nancy while she works as a ballerina and a part-time sushi chef.
My son, Robert, is 2 1/2. He is fascinated with trains, trucks, cars, dinosaurs, airplanes, you name it. For Hannukah, I got him a male Groovy Girl doll. He looked at it, looked at me, and said, "Um, Zoe's dolly? Here, Zoe."
I have no idea - but I"m starting to figure out that some of this stuff is hard-wired. It's delightful, however it comes about.
Posted by: Melissa | 03 April 2008 at 05:53 AM
Have you ever been surprised by the extent of your kid's "girliness" or "boyishness"?
LOL...yes...is and always has been a 'girly girl' (HER quote for herself as well as ours)
Posted by: Sharon Jones | 03 April 2008 at 06:00 AM
my daughter is the girliest :)
Posted by: kathy pease | 03 April 2008 at 06:21 AM
I've been blessed with 2 boys...and both were "all boy"...believe me.
Posted by: Jane Hoh | 03 April 2008 at 06:37 AM
No, My daughter is all I expected in a girl.
Posted by: Veronica Garrett | 03 April 2008 at 06:42 AM
My youngest is the complete opposite of her older sister. I keep expecting her to express some part of her feminine side but she just won't. Sports, black clothes and NO PINK are her mottos. Her older sister? As feminine as you get.
Posted by: Kirsten | 03 April 2008 at 06:43 AM
Love the Prima Princess for twin five year old grandchildren. Best of luck to all who enter the contest
Posted by: sarah woods | 03 April 2008 at 07:00 AM
Absolutely. Given a choice between a pink shirt and a blue one, my 15-month old daughter picks the pink one every time. She also is fussy about being clean (even when she's sick and vomiting she manages to get it eveywhere but on herself) and my 3-year old son could not care less. In fact he searches out the messiest opportunity in the room and goes for it.
I do think it's interesting that I associate these traits as "girly" or "boyish" even after a BA in sociology and years of trying to push the boundaries of my brain. Really, pink looks just as good on boys. And making messes is a fun part of childhood-driving your mother insane with the constant cleaning up is a rite of passage.
Posted by: Amie | 03 April 2008 at 07:13 AM
My niece is a great athlete but she still likes to play dress up.
Posted by: Kathy Scott | 03 April 2008 at 07:18 AM
I've got an older daughter, but I've been really impressed at how my little guy (2 years younger) gravitates towards all things with wheels and boy-like, even before we had all those things. I mean, he still likes to wear necklaces and bows when my DD is getting dressed, but he's definitely all boy!
Posted by: Kristine | 03 April 2008 at 07:23 AM
yes, I was suprised when my son told me at 3 that he couldn't play with power rangers because they are dolls.
Posted by: Candis Hansen | 03 April 2008 at 07:36 AM
Our youngest daughter is at both ends of the 'girly' / 'tom boy' spectrum. Very balanced.
Posted by: Doug Heydrick | 03 April 2008 at 07:53 AM
Even though we don't condone the use of weapons, and have NEVER bought any type of weapon-type toys for our sons, it always amazes me how they can turn the simplest objects--sticks, pencils, rulers--into homemade guns and slingshots!
On the flipside, my daughter is the epitome of girliness. . . every outfit must contain either pink or purple!
Posted by: Michelle L. | 03 April 2008 at 08:51 AM
My daughter like the to be girly and play dress-up and boyish and help my husband fix things
Posted by: Lisa Fosses | 03 April 2008 at 08:53 AM
great contest
Posted by: Elna Mcrith | 03 April 2008 at 09:40 AM
No, My daughter is just a super girly girl. She is always coming downstairs in crowns, jewelry,heels,dresses-you name it!
Posted by: Monique Rizzo | 03 April 2008 at 09:54 AM
My daughter is super, super girly. She will NOT WEAR PANTS unless she has a skirt over them. She wants to pretend to put on makeup every time we leave the house--even though I don't wear it.
Posted by: Jennifer | 03 April 2008 at 10:00 AM
My daughter surprises me all the time...one time she is all girlie wants dolls, pink clothes, take dance lessons, etc. Next time is wants car, boy t-shirts, play basketball, etc.
Posted by: Susanne Troop | 03 April 2008 at 10:36 AM
My son is only 1 and I have been suprised at the difference between him and my daughters. He's drawn to balls, trucks, dogs and messes. He loves to wrestle and play "rough".
Posted by: Paula Hafner | 03 April 2008 at 11:18 AM
I'm not at all surprised by my little girl's girly side... she takes after me way too much! She's all about tutu's and play high heels, which makes for some fun tea parties! :)
Thanks,
Marissa
Posted by: Marissa | 03 April 2008 at 11:35 AM
Yes!
Posted by: Timothy Sternberg | 03 April 2008 at 12:22 PM
My great niece is the little princess in everything that she does. I believe that she feels that she may have been born into royalty. It would surprise me if she didn't act like a princess. She's quite the little lady.
Posted by: Susan Ledet | 03 April 2008 at 12:47 PM
i want to win
Posted by: Mike Weisberg | 03 April 2008 at 01:52 PM